“You Enjoy Talking about It More than Doing It”Fake Narratives in Disdainful Relationships

  1. Elisabeth Torras-Gómez 1
  2. Mar Joanpere 2
  3. Susana León-Jiménez 3
  4. Rosa Valls-Carol 4
  1. 1 Universitat Autònoma de Barcelona
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    Universitat Autònoma de Barcelona

    Barcelona, España

    ROR https://ror.org/052g8jq94

  2. 2 Universitat Rovira i Virgili
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    Universitat Rovira i Virgili

    Tarragona, España

    ROR https://ror.org/00g5sqv46

  3. 3 Universidad Internacional de La Rioja
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    Universidad Internacional de La Rioja

    Logroño, España

    ROR https://ror.org/029gnnp81

  4. 4 Universitat de Barcelona
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    Universitat de Barcelona

    Barcelona, España

    ROR https://ror.org/021018s57

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Revista:
Qualitative Research in Education

ISSN: 2014-6418

Año de publicación: 2022

Volumen: 11

Número: 2

Páginas: 180-202

Tipo: Artículo

DOI: 10.17583/QRE.10578 DIALNET GOOGLE SCHOLAR lock_openDialnet editor

Otras publicaciones en: Qualitative Research in Education

Resumen

La investigación ha encontrado que el discurso dominante coercitivo puede tener un impacto negativo en el placer sexual de las niñas. En este sentido, un estudio previo encontró que las chicas que describían las relaciones bajo el DCD como excitantes también reconocían una falta de placer sexual en estas. Uno de los elementos subyacentes a esta aparente contradicción fue un desajuste identificado entre lo que las participantes habían experimentado en tales relaciones, caracterizadas por ser desdeñosas, y lo que les habían dicho a sus amigas. No obstante, se necesita más investigación para comprender mejor cómo las narrativas de las chicas sobre sus relaciones afectivo-sexuales difieren de las formas en que las experimentaron. El presente estudio tiene como objetivo identificar y analizar la presencia de narrativas falsas en las interacciones que las chicas tienen con sus pares en relación con las relaciones afectivas-sexuales. Para ello, se realizaron 10 entrevistas comunicativas a chicas de entre 18 y 21 años. Los resultados muestran que, si bien las participantes reconocen sentir falta de placer en esas relaciones desdeñosas, las describen como emocionantes cuando las cuentan a sus compañeros, suprimiendo los sentimientos negativos que las rodean. Estos hallazgos corroboran la presencia de narrativas falsas en relación con las relaciones desdeñosas y aportan nuevos conocimientos sobre los aspectos en torno a los cuales se construyen estas historias fabricadas.

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